Frustration galore with Pam and Sean punishing Aaron for being slow to stop

Follow directions the first time asked in play tonight because Aaron has a hard time simply stopping a video game, even one which I control.  With impatient staff like Pam, who consequences first and foremost, then he has a conflict.  With a weeks worth of video game restriction as an added punishment and the very real threats of being escorted from the unit, which almost always leads inevitably into a full fledged restraint, I told Sequin and the situation was de escalated a bit.  Otherwise, a good night of computers, xbox, and iPad.  I think the other staff resent me because I am too nice to the kids.  Oh, well!